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Porn Becoming Mainstream is Not the Only Problem

There is such a thing as having a sex addiction while never having seen pornography. You can have a “wet dream” without ever having seen pornography. You can start masturbating at an early age without ever having seen pornography. You can get the idea of raping someone into your head without ever having been on the internet. You can use an item as a sex toy without ever having owned a sex toy.

I have no problem with adult entertainment.  Keyword of that sentence being “adult”.  What consenting adults chose to do with other consenting adults is not my business. I will, however,  always take issue with child pornography, Bratz dolls, Monster High Halloween costumes intended for girls, sexy Halloween costumes for underage teens,  men who sign up to the US army specifically for the chance to go to brothels in other countries where children are on the menu, Youtube allowing young women to make content about how great it is to be a cam girl or have an only fans, the fact that only fans and cam model websites having affiliate links for one to become a sex worker, and the fact that Netflix still has not removed the film “Cuties” from their collection.

I am fully aware that the only actions I can control are my own.

 It doesn’t matter how many heathens you burn at the stake. You can put out as many “call to actions” as you want about the things going on in this world that you want to see gone, but you will always make an impact and change the minds of some of the people listening to you, never all of them.  Even Giliad in “The Handmaid’s Tale” has a black market.  

Even Giliad allows prostitution.  

You want to change the world for women and children so badly?

Baby steps.  That’s the only dent most of us will ever make for whatever cause we are fighting for, let alone women’s rights is baby steps.  This “all or nothing” attitude has been, is, and will get us nowhere.  The infighting that continues to go on about who is the correct leader for the cause is getting us nowhere.  The factioning off into little microcosm communities both online and offline while stubbornly refusing to, at the end of the day,  put personal bullshit aside once and for all and fight for the greater good is getting us nowhere.  Pushing aside male allies who genuinely want to fight for these causes is getting us nowhere. The “greater good” that we need to put first is children.
Swallow your pride, stop bickering.  Do work.

Yes, my thoughts are a complete cluster f*ck of word vomit when I talk about something I really care about.  I am well aware of that, thanks.  It is part of the package that is me.


There’s a saying: sometimes when you reach a life milestone, you wind up losing a friend.

It is a hard pill to swallow, but it happens.

I refuse to deal with such negative energy. I am not about that. I said something hurtful to them, I apologized, I gave my word that it would never happen again, they forgave me. Or so I thought.

I have a shit ton of problems, but when I give you my word, that is a blood fucking oath. So if someone is dumb enough to question that even the tiniest bit, you’re goddamn fucking right I am going to lose my temper.

If that’s not good enough for someone: fuck them. I don’t need that negative energy in my life. I am trying my best to evolve as a person, and I will not let anyone or anything compromise the progress I am making.

Make all the profiles you want.

To anyone who has had a friend turn on them:

Nolite te bastardes carborundorum.

Welcome to Amerikkka

I don’t even know where to start.

When I watched the insurrection on the news, the first thing that popped into my head was “Holy shit, is Margaret Atwood some kind of prophet???!!!”

Can you imagine what could have happened if the White House was broken into by people who were carrying a shit ton of guns and bombs etc. that could have killed everyone in our government?

Can we all just put the bullshit aside, be adults, and have a serious discussion about this event in Amerikkkan history?

Every time I think about this, I think about how Camden, New Jersey had protests about George Floyd and police brutality. No one was killed. There were riots in Atlantic City, New Jersey, and no one was killed. There were protests in Trenton, New Jersey, and no one was killed.

Do you even know how many gangs exist and/or matriculate through New Jersey every year? How did New Jersey manage to have riots and protests with no casualties??!!

Can we all for a second forget how jaded and desensitized from sex and violence we’ve become? Can we not just talk about this, but listen to each other?

Evil can only be unstoppable if it is never confronted by a force of good that decides to be much bigger and more powerful than evil is. That means enemy must wave the white flag against enemy. That means rivals must stop and shake hands in the name of changing Amerikkka to America.

I have faith that the next time something like this happens, we will all agree to put our nonsense aside and fight for the greater good.

Blessed be.

The Shallow

I was just watching a clip of Lady Gaga winning the Oscar for her song “Shallow” from the movie she was in, “A Star is Born”, and then I watched a clip of the ending of the latest season of “The Handmaid’s Tale” and my throat swelled up and I cried a little.  

I told my mom “Hey, it’s that time of the month: sue me” and she laughed.Aunt Flow was a small part of why I felt like I could just burst into tears at that moment.Just watching how men are slowly but surely are coming out of the woodwork and doing what they used to do before Christianity swallowed up pagans whole and left the survivors naked, shivering, scared, in the dark.  Supporting women.  Uplifting women.  Defending women.  Believing in women.  Slowly turning the tide back to when there was no gender war. Back to when we were equal.  Back when we were ying and yang.  When three little birds pitched by your doorstep, “singing sweet songs, of melodies pure and true.”When you did not have to worry about a thing.I can feel it.  That little flame of gold.  That golden world Anne Boleyn hinted at one bright summer’s day.  When it felt like everything was finally coming together in her favor.  In all of women kind’s favor. For once.

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